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All the Marathis

November 11, 2025December 23, 2025 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

My first exposure to Vijaywada and the language environment of my new home was a conversation with the uber driver. We interacted with help of our mixed repertoire of English and Telugu. I do not speak Telugu (yet). He taught me some useful everyday terms. I told him about Telugu I have heard in Hyderabad. Then the conversation moved to the different Telugu s. The Vijayawada Telugu is the pure Telugu he said and then proceeded to explain the differences with other regional versions with everyday examples. The forms of verbs, the intonations, some words that differ.

That conversation stayed with me because it made me think about a similar possible conversation with a Puneri person. Many times Marathi Praman Bhasha is equated with the formal register. However, there is an added layer of regional hierarchy. The Puneri Marathi and its formal register are Praman. The formal register of the languages in other regions are still not up to the mark.

When I refer to formal register I am talking about language spoken at formal occasions rather than everyday speech. Formal does not mean pure. It only means situational. Other registers could be spoken vs. written. Then there is the difference between written to friends, colleagues, boss, vs government/official/legal notes.

These registers are just the way we speak/express depending on where we are and who we are speaking to. It is not about correct or incorrect language. The problem starts when we see it as a hierarchy and treat one register as ‘proper’ or shuddh शुद्ध (pure) language. In doing so we have forgotten the regionality of the Puneri Marathi register.

If Praman Bhasha were truly neutral, who would feel most at home in it—and who would feel most exposed? Puneri Marathi quietly standing in as neutral or pure or the original untainted marathi, makes distinctions between registers not just functional. They are moralised. Speaking or writing differently is no longer just “informal” — it becomes “lazy”, “incorrect”, or “uncultured”.

Thus when a child, a teacher, or a community speaker is told their Marathi is ashuddh अशुद्ध, what is really being corrected is not grammar but location, physical and social.

Related Reading:
All the Englishes by Akshaya Saxena: She talks about helping students in her literature class question “how language itself shapes our ideas about ownership and belonging” with the help of Amy Tan’s essay ‘Mother tongue’.

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The Need to Pass

September 1, 2025December 21, 2025 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

Yesterday one of the speakers at the Vimukt Diwas conference mentioned how some Banjara (or DNT?) youth borrowed money to go to Ayodhya for the Ram mandir inauguration, while the families did not have enough money for two square meals or to continue their education. What makes people make these decisions?

There was a discussion on false consciousness and how this keeps DNT in the cycle of poverty and exploitation. The point of the conversation was that people are misled by dominant ideologies into acting against their own interests. However, instead of asking why do people act against their interests? I would like to think what kinds of recognition are made available to them, and at what cost?

I have been thinking about this for the past few years with reference to the conversations in the Anandshala project. Two conversations stand out:

When interviewing Banjara students about their language use, one student said, it is obvious that nobody would like to learn his language, it is filthy. There are swear words. Marathi is much cleaner. The remark was delivered in a matter of-fact way.

A few months back waiting for the inauguration ceremony of Anandshala container school in a vadar vasti, I was chatting with the parents and grandparents of the children. One grandma mentioned that she just dropped her grandson in a residential school. Among the two, one was very boisterous and unruly. She was worried about वाईट संगत if he stayed home. The other one was quieter, brighter. अगदी बामनावाणी बोलतो. The teacher at the residential school promised that he will straighten the boisterous one after a year, after he gives him time to settle down.

These are not isolated anecdotes. The pressure on marginalised communities to demonstrate worthiness by aligning themselves with dominant norms of speech, behaviour, belief, and discipline are evident in everyday moments as well as institutional processes. Hegemony works not through force alone, but through consent: through everyday practices of aspiration and common sense.

These three instances are examples of investments in symbolic capital. Attempts to convert marginality into recognition, however fragile that recognition may be. The problem is not that people want to pass. It is that passing has been made a prerequisite for dignity.

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What does it take to pass?

December 12, 2024August 31, 2025 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

One of the Anandshala facilitators during a conversation proudly shared that people say “you don’t sound Laman”. For her, not sounding x is a marker of upward movement socially. Like in Shaw’s Pygmalion or P L Deshpande’s Fulrani, what does it take for a flower girl to pass off as an elite lady?

She grew up in the district headquarter, not in the Tanda. Her Marathi is learnt as a Parisar Bhasha among various marathi speaking people, not as a language of instruction or a subject in school like her students. For a person visiting from Pune, the keeper of ‘standard Marathi’ she will sound rural or not (so called) higher caste. Markers such as न and ण would be obvious to them. Those she did not learn by osmosis in her semi-urban environment, but only in the school. When we look at language as performative in that sense – where and how one learns it makes or breaks the performance.

Why do people find the need to pass; what harm such compulsions rooted in social structures cause; and what can we do personally and as a society to not put that burden on them is a conversation for another day.

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Social Memory of Separation

October 20, 2024September 5, 2025 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

The Girl’s hostel at the school (in Harali) started hosting Laman Banjara girls during the pandemic. Our Anandshala program at that time catered to the children of Banjara migrant workers. Come Diwali they migrate to harvest sugarcane and are away till February/March. With the AshramShalas still closed, young kids especially girls would have migrated with parents and all the efforts to keep them in school with help of Anandshala project would have been wasted. So the school temporarily accommodated banjara students in the hostel for 3-4 months. Then many of them joined the school and stayed on for the next year.

Visiting days and times for the girl’s hostel are fixed but Banjara parents arrive to see their children at ‘random’ times. Because they missed them intensely. Or because they thought of the kid while eating mutton curry. Or because they are leaving for the harvest and do not know when they will be back. Some reasons seem somewhat logical to the school staff, some outright absurd. Some staff members felt that the parents just don’t understand or do not want to follow rules.

For the last couple of years, the school started a scholarship program for bright girls to join the school in 5th grade and stay in the hostel. Most of the girls who got the scholarship did not join. Their mothers or grandmothers got emotional with the thought of parting. They are from within a 25 km radius of the school. It is not excruciatingly difficult to travel. One of the grandmothers said “She will get married and leave, why send her away now, so soon.”

This is unfathomable for the facilitators and JPH staff who worked hard to prepare these students for the ‘opportunity’. Some of the staff are urban and some are from the villages around. But neither could relate to this angst. It comes from the history of the community as nomad traders. In olden days, when a person joined another Tanda (a caravan) or got married and moved in a different direction, the probability that they will meet again was low, given that both of them would be on the move. This separation angst from the social memory is kept alive through wedding songs describing parting and loss.

In modern times, the girls get married to somebody within the community, many times in the same Tanda or nearby. But the historical memory and separation anxiety plays up in seemingly illogical ways affecting many facets of their life. You can’t wish it away or juxtapose a structure of another system on it to keep it in check.

Unless it is acknowledged, we can’t move forward.

In Harali, this is a constant struggle. Would bussing in be better to provide opportunities for Banjara girls, acknowledging the socio-cultural milieu? How can we make rules that work with the ways of the community?

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Endangered Home Languages

August 20, 2024December 30, 2024 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

Working with the Laman Banjara children in Anandshala, we have been exploring various facets of the problem आपली मुलं शाळेत फुलत का नाहीत? [why don’t our children prosper in school]. A couple of years back we talked with the parents, children, and the teachers about language transition from home language to school language – their experiences, what they think works and does not work.

As educators, learning scientists, linguistic anthropologits, we think that it is important to support the home language. Use it in verbal exchange in formal and informal learning spaces; create learning material in the home language; encourage translanguaging. While parents want their children to quickly move on to Marathi and English. When asked “don’t you worry you will lose your language?” The answer was – “We talk in our language at home. It will not disappear. But the children need to learn English to get a job in the office and change their plight.”

An article on Kolami speaking community in PARI reminded me of this exchange. Kolami is named as an endangered language by UNESCO. But the speakers have more pressing issues than saving their language:

“There is no time to think about anything else [other than her farm],” she says about the status of Kolami as an endangered language. When Sunita and her community didn’t know fluent Marathi, “everyone would say ‘speak in Marathi! speak in Marathi!’” And now when the language is endangered, “everyone wants us to speak in Kolami,” she chuckles.
“We speak our language. Our children too,” she asserts. “It’s only when we go out that we speak in Marathi. When we come back home, we speak our language.”
“ Aapli bhasha aaplich rahili pahije [Our language should remain ours]. Kolami should be Kolami and Marathi should be Marathi. That is what matters.”
– The Kolami Speakers of Yavatmal.

It is the exact same discourse. When there is urgent need of improving dire living situation, saving home language or the identity formation of the child in the first five school years based on home language, and all the theories of learning are not a priority.

Working with the community as a participatory practice rather than an intervention, where do we stand when our beliefs about primacy of home language butt against the basic struggle to stay alive?

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निसर्गातली लगबग

August 4, 2024 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

रोज आंघोळ करताना खिडकीतून एक सुगरणीचं जोडपं घरटं करताना दिसतं. सुरवातीला नुसतं फांदीला लटकलेला अर्धगोल होता आता पूर्ण गोळा तयार झालाय. त्याला आत जायला जागा आणि त्याला वरून आवरण आहे. काडी काडी आणून, रोज थोड थोड करून अगदी सुबक बांधकाम झालंय.
जागोजागी शिंपी सुद्धा गवताची पाती आणून खोपच्यामध्ये घरटी बनवताहेत. एक खिडकी आणि जाळीच्या मध्ये, एक गुलाबाच्या वेलीच्या गचपणात अस जोरदार काम चालू आहे. लांब लचक गवताची पाती घेऊन उडताना हे पक्षी फारच मजेशीर वाटतात. पलिकडे शेतात लावलेली सोयाबीन आणि इतर पिकं जेमतेम दिसत होती, ती आता वाढून शेत गच्च भरल आहे.

हराळीला आलं की अशी निसर्गात चाललेली अॅक्शन बघता बघता आपोआप मन स्थिरावतं.

आज नाश्ता करायला जाताना मुंग्यांची रांग दिसली पण काहीतरी वेगळ वाटल म्हणून थांबले तर मुंग्या नाही तर termite ची लगबग चाललेली दिसली. एका बिळातून दुसऱ्या बिळात ओळीनी सर्व चालले होते. मध्येच एक काळा मोठा मुंगळा आला आणि त्यांच्यात घुसला. भोजनगृहाबाहेर मुंगळ्यांची रांग गेले 4-5 दिवस आहे. पण हा पठ्ठ्या वाट चुकून इथे अलीकडेच कुठे असा विचार करत होते तोपर्यंत तो termite च्या लायनीत घुसला आणि त्यांना खायला लागला. गौरी आणि मी आश्चर्यानी बघायला लागलो आणि तो खरतर termite सोडतोय आणि त्यांच्या पकडीत असेलेल पांढरं काहीतरी खतोय अस लक्षात आल. म्हणजे ही सगळी मंडळी बहुतेक अंडी हलवत होती असं दिसतय. मुंग्यांना अंडी हलवताना पाहिल होतं पण termite ना कधी पाहिलं नव्हत.

मुंगळ्याचा असा डल्ला मारणं सुरू होतं तोपर्यन्त termite च्या रांगेत अचानक उलट्या दिशेनी येणारे मोठया लाल डोक्याचे प्रकार दिसू लागले. त्यांच्या कडे बघत होतो तोपर्यन्त त्यांच्या फौजेपैकी काहीनी मुंगळ्याला घेरल आणि बहुतेक चावायला सुरवात केली. मुंगळ्यानी self-defence साठी स्वतःचं मुटकुळ करून घेतल. पण मुंगळा जोपर्यन्त रांगे पासून दूर जात नाही तोपर्यंत ह्या पठयानी त्याला सोडल नाही. हे विशेष फौजेतले termite चे प्रकारही मी पहिल्यांदाच पाहिले.

एक महिनाभरामध्ये जसं हळूहळू पुढे जाणारं काम, बदलत जाणारा निसर्ग पाहायला मिळतो तसं अचानक थरार नाट्य सुद्धा पाहायला मिळतं.

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Museum Culture

June 24, 2024February 15, 2025 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

On the weekend, we visited the ‘Walking through the songline‘ exhibit at Kiran Nadar Museum. We found the museum and the exhibit 3-4 weeks back but did not have enough time for the emersive experience so decided to come back later. Unlike the quiet space with interested patrons, staff enthusiastically helping, chitchatting about the exhibit, we found crushing crowds, staff busy keeping people in single line, pushing through exhibits, somewhat like the 1 second darshan at Tirupati Balaji.

This kind of interactive and emersive installation cannot provide a good experience with heavy, crushing crowds. But in a crowded country like India, what is the alternative if you want a museum to be freely accesible for everyboady?

It was extremely noisy to the point where we could not hear the audio paired with the installations. Some of the screens had a pair of wired headphones which helped. It was perplexing though that hardly anybody was interested in the headphones or fighting over them.

I wondered if the noise was due to the sheer number of people or because the objective of the visitors were different and contradictory to each other and the space. Most thought of the installations as background decoration creating an ambience through which they could walk in packs, chitchatting about things unrelated to the subject of the museum. A lot of duckface and selfies even in front of the videos. People just walked in and out of the rooms playing 10 minute videos. Was it because 10 minutes was much longer than they were used to, in comparison to the social media reels? The cinematography was so beautiful. Even if you did not understand the language or were not interested in the content, the visuals of the landscape were mesmerizing. It still did not seem to keep viewers in place for 10 minutes. Not out of interest, nor courtesy to others watching intently.

We reminisced later about the crowded Metropolitan museum or other more emersive experiences in NYC, rest of the US, Canada, and Sweden that we have experienced. It did not feel the same way even on crowded days. Although, may be the space to people ratio yesterday was nothing like I have ever seen before. Last time we were at the Metropolitan, I remember seeing long queues outside the museum as they tried to maintain certain number of people inside.

We also talked about culture of going to the museums. Our friends from NYC talked about going to the museum as a kid. Growing up for us, this was unheard of. We started visiting the museums as adults. I remeber Parag getting bored in the Guggenheim. He has developed the interest and patience after a variety of such experiences.

Parag thought they should not allow very young children, which I think is counterproductive and not fair. If they do not experience it as a child, how can they appreciate it as an adult. The problem I think was the adults not actively interested, engaged in guiding their children through the exhibit. When a child looking at an aboriginal woman commented, ‘look at her fat lips’, instead of using it as a teaching moment, the adult with them turned their back at the screen and took a selfie of the spectacle. The aboriginal woman was narrating the place of the seven sister songline for her people. That was completely lost.

As I thought all this, I wondered, who am I to decide how an interactive, emmersive exhibit should be experienced. When I feel people need to be educated about experiencing an exhibit like this, am I being elitist? Does the team that designed it have a say?

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Election time

May 26, 2024May 26, 2024 devayanitirthaliLeave a comment

Yesterday Delhi voted for their Loksabha candidate in phase 6. We managed to vote around 7:30am. We did not manage to move our name from North Delhi to South Delhi in time so our polling station was close to our old house, an hour drive away. It was too hot already at 8am. Not many people out to vote yet. Would have been earlier if people helping were not giving wrong information. Started with a voter coming out of a polling station gave me directions to the wrong school. Found the correct school. We had our booth and voter numbers ready, downloaded from the election commission website. But people inside the polling station were not trained to handle that so they were insisting I get a ‘parchi’. Then they insisted they will look through the entire list they had one name at a time. Sigh

It is not so difficult to find your booth and voter group number online if you have the EPIC number on the voter id card. Most people came there with their mobiles. If they knew how to find the booth number, the lines at the info counter would have been shorter. More information needs to be provided, a day before so people can come prepared. And then the people outside the booth need to be trained to handle this info, instead of looking it up one by one in the unending bundles of lists.

Last time I stood near the party tables telling people how to look at their records online. At peak hours it really helped cut down wait time. It is such a simple thing. Why are no parties or the election commission advertising it? Just a few lines added to the robo calls I got in the last 2 days would have helped.

Parag had the same experience at the polling station he went to. But at his polling station, the people spreading misinformation were the citizens standing in the line. They sent 4 elderly people back asking them to get parachi when they already had their booth numbers. Today I talked with Somavati. She did not vote in South Delhi. They sent her back because she did not have ‘parchi’ She was devastated. She was skeptical to start with as she hadn’t received a ‘parchi’ this time or in last 2-3 years so her name was surely removed for some reason she thought. Had to explain that last election happened 5 years back. She remembered voting in that election.

Last time, I saw similar things outside Malikpur polling station. People dejected because they didn’t have ‘parchi’ and did not know if they had a right to vote. I stood outside the polling station helping people to find their name and polling booth online on the election commission website. I feel sad that I did not do something similar near our new place of residence this year.

The voter turn out was really low around 57% for Delhi. It is really sad. The heat wave is one of the culprits but so is this cumbersome process of finding polling station, booth etc. May be I can start something near my new home to create awareness a few days before the next election.